Advice worth giving
The best advice is this:
Don’t take advice and don’t give advice.
Author Unknown

To my future child,

Over the years I have collected a lot of advices and kept the ones that are quite useful. Here are some simple rules so you can navigate the boring stuff of life and enjoy the less boring parts of it.

I hope that they will help you and that you may add some more to them, pass them along so people you care about will enjoy life with you, because a life in solitary and with no one to share what you know with, is a life not well lived.

Categories

Meditation.

calm

Meditation is a lot of things. The simplest of all is to just focus on breathing and listen to it.


Enjoy the journey of life.

life

A lot of times you will enjoy the journey towards a goal more than the actual goal.


You are not only paying taxes to the government.

life

Everything we accomplish has a price attached to it. If you are famous you will pay rumors and gossip tax. If you have more than you need or things that others desire, theft is one possible tax you may have to pay. In light of success you pay taxes in stress and problems.


The old has value.

life

If something is old, it will probably be around for quite some time. A book that exists for 100 years will also be around in the next 100 years. This is called the Lindy effect.


Emotional eater.

parenting

Don't celebrate events with your children by eating food. If something bad happens don't cheer them up with food.


Fully engaged.

work

Go out in the world and do what you are good at and your mind will be fully focused.


Less is more.

consuming

Less is more can be applied to everything, start using it more deliberately throughout your day and life.


Minority rule.

work

Watch out for the minority rule. Once you have 10% or more woman at a party you cannot only serve beer. Most men although will drink wine. So you only need one set of glasses if you will serve only wine.


Create free content.

work

Try to create free content around your work that other people can get value of.


Future or Present value.

life

When you try to predict the future, consider that the present is here. The probability of it existing is very high, you can feel it and see it. The closer the present is to now, the higher the probability is that you can predict it.